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Obituary for Lida P Holden

Lida Pearl (Bateman) Holden, of Umatilla, Florida, passed away Thursday, March 19, 2020. Born July 25, 1937, Lida, the oldest of four girls, was raised in the Florida Keys by Brooks and Lida Bateman. They were the first family to live on Pigeon Key.

Her three younger sisters called her “Toodles,” a name affectionately bestowed upon Lida by her father. He got the name from a prized miniature race car, with the name "Toodles" written on the side, which he won in a poker game.

During her youth, the Florida Keys did not have schools beyond the elementary grades, so Lida was sent to study at Ashley Hall in Charleston, South Carolina, for her junior-high-school years and later to Coral Gables High School, Coral Gables, Florida. A swimming and diving champion, Lida attended the University of Mississippi on a partial swimming scholarship. An excellent student, she graduated in 3-1/2 years with a degree in teaching.

Her first teaching job was in Ocala, Florida. It was in Ocala that Lida met Thomas Cleary "T.C." Holden on a blind date. It was a steamy romance, which included a marriage proposal in the back seat of a car, and culminated in a wonderful 52-year marriage that ended with T.C.'s death in 2014.

Following marriage, the couple moved to Orlando, Florida, where they adopted four children - three sons and daughter - and became foster parents to another son. An avid fisherwoman, Lida encouraged her family's love of the outdoors. Summers memories included countless camping and fishing adventures.

While their children were young, Lida was a stay-at-home mom. But she never missed an opportunity to contribute financially, working at times as a telephone operator, a butcher at a meat-packing plant, a substitute cafeteria employee, a nurse's aide, and as the owner of a small adult daycare for people with disabilities.

Lida returned to teaching after her youngest entered elementary school. She spent many years teaching English at Maynard Evans High School in Orlando, Florida, where her love of all children was obvious to her students, who remember her bubbly spirit and kindness.

Her retirement years were spent in Church Hill, Tennessee, and in Lake County, Florida. Though retired, she never tired of working and hosted many garage sales, which were more about making people happy than about making money. She relished watching people get a great deal and got great joy from giving away things for free.

Lida enjoyed every opportunity to see her grandchildren and great grandchildren, to tell or hear a joke, and to help anyone with whom she came in contact. She is known for her wide smile, her twinkling eyes, her contagious laugh, and her ability to make the world a better place for having lived.

She will be missed by many.

Lida is preceded in death by her husband, T.C. Holden, and her son, John Holden. She is survived by her children, Michael Holden; Mary Christine "Tena" (Holden) Kurtz; Thomas "Tud" Holden; and Jeff Kotz; her grandchildren, Mark, Kevin and Kenny ONeal; Brian Ervin; B.J. Sharp; Brooke Holden; Tommy Holden; Sydney Kurtz; and Kristen Arant, her great-grandchildren, Oliver Sharp; Liam Lester; and Oscar Arant. In addition, she is survived by her sisters, Bettye Chaplin, Gloria Davis, and Mollie Dodson.

A Celebration of Life will be held this summer. Date to be determined.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Wounded Warrior Project (